Z's Comfort Zone

Where I Come to Unwind

Blog Posts

  • Healing Practices

    Healing Practices

    A practice I started back in 2022, and didn’t even realize I was doing it, is living room dance parties. It’s like throwing a concert, but it’s just for me. When I DJ, I don’t worry about anyone else’s preferences because I’m the only one on the dance floor. I play things that make my…

  • Circling back…

    Circling back…

    The next person to say “circle back” in a meeting owes you $5. But no, this isn’t actually about that. Sort of, but not really. This is about spinning the block. I’m starting to realize that the reason I often spin the block is not because there is something about the person that I miss,…

  • Love Story

    Love Story

    The content reflects on a deeply personal and elusive love story characterized by quiet strength and profound feelings. It emphasizes the importance of faith in love despite uncertainty and highlights the desire for a meaningful connection. The author expresses hope for future experiences and a willingness to embrace love fully.

  • Fire & Desire II

    Fire & Desire II

    “I don’t want worship. I want understanding.” I’ve been struggling lately with whether my relationships are transactional. Family, friends, and partners alike. I’ve been struggling lately with whether I give enough, and whether I allow interpersonal relationships to just be and exist, or if I overthink them. I do overthink them, but something made me…

  • What defines a “Full Life”?

    What defines a “Full Life”?

    This is a question that lives in the back of my mind recently. Is my life full because I’m busy everyday? Is it even full because I spend it working, even if that work brings me joy? Not really. At the end of the day, am I deriving joy from work while neglecting the other…