Z's Comfort Zone

Where I Come to Unwind

Blog Posts

  • Hello Peace.

    Hello Peace.

    I love my life, it’s such a beautiful life.  I also love how solution-oriented I am.  Sometimes it frustrates me. I know a lot of the time, that’s not what other people need when they come to me with their worries. I also wonder if I do the same thing for myself. Where I don’t…

  • Fire & desire

    Fire & desire

    Lately, I feel like I’ve been bursting at the seams from words unsaid. I feel like I need a million journals, and an AI assistant that can reach into my brain, read all my thoughts, unscramble them, and put them down on paper to make it make sense. Here’s a start: I have beef with…

  • Men like to talk

    Men like to talk

    There’s a part of my heart that’s completely hardened and has stopped feeling bad for saying no and ending things with men when I don’t feel fulfilled. I realize it’s the part of me that felt bad for them, knowing that they relied on me to be their person. Men like to talk. And that’s…

  • Thing’s I’ve Outgrown

    Thing’s I’ve Outgrown

    In 2022, I thought I’d hit a peak “self-actualization” moment. I was wrongggggggg. I’ve had some of the best years of my life in 2024 and so far in 2025. One of the key reasons for that is that I am continuing to develop a greater sense of self, I’ve grown to love and romanticize…

  • Wishing for a Hero….

    Wishing for a Hero….

    It’s a constant uphill battle, and every day we wake up with brown skin covered by an invisible layer of armor. The blog discusses how Polo G’s music conveys the reality of structural racism and its impact on the Black experience. The author reflects on personal experiences and societal issues related to discrimination, violence, and…