Z's Comfort Zone

Where I Come to Unwind

Blog Posts

  • The door that doesn’t close, though it should.

    My type of love is so gullible. It’s a weird in-between. I’m stone cold. I wear armor. I protect myself. I stand guard. But I remain so easy to attack. So vulnerable. So open. To strangers, maybe not. My RBF? Strong. But when it comes to the people who know me well, I’m a fragile…

  • Time & Battle-tested

    Love is a beautiful, joyful thing that makes life an experience of a lifetime. It is not just about the moments, but also about the journey of making it and still being in love.

  • Well-written, Relatable, Messy, Passionate Characters.

    Well-written, Relatable, Messy, Passionate Characters.

    I’m getting more intentional about my journaling. I’m doubling down my investment into small, consistent actions that will benefit my overall health and well-being. Recently, in my gratitude journal, where I list 3 things to be grateful for daily, I wrote “Well-written, relatable, messy, passionate characters”. Currently, those characters are Eva and Shane. The problem…

  • To Be Met

    To Be Met

    Almost everything I do, I do with a level of intensity that most people don’t have, and a lot of people don’t like. I joke about only being able to write when I’m in pain. I talk about this often. I was even speaking to someone about this recently and we agreed that writing and…

  • Passenger Princess

    Passenger Princess

    On my vision board this year, me being a “Passenger Princess” was an important qualification for my ideal partner. While I meant literally riding in the passenger seat of his physical car, I’m realizing how key the figurative meaning is too. I want and need to be a passenger princess to God, and the vehicle…