Z's Comfort Zone

Where I Come to Unwind

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  • Well-written, Relatable, Messy, Passionate Characters.

    Well-written, Relatable, Messy, Passionate Characters.

    I’m getting more intentional about my journaling. I’m doubling down my investment into small, consistent actions that will benefit my overall health and well-being. Recently, in my gratitude journal, where I list 3 things to be grateful for daily, I wrote “Well-written, relatable, messy, passionate characters”. Currently, those characters are Eva and Shane. The problem…

  • To Be Met

    To Be Met

    Almost everything I do, I do with a level of intensity that most people don’t have, and a lot of people don’t like. I joke about only being able to write when I’m in pain. I talk about this often. I was even speaking to someone about this recently and we agreed that writing and…

  • Passenger Princess

    Passenger Princess

    On my vision board this year, me being a “Passenger Princess” was an important qualification for my ideal partner. While I meant literally riding in the passenger seat of his physical car, I’m realizing how key the figurative meaning is too. I want and need to be a passenger princess to God, and the vehicle…

  • Healing Practices

    Healing Practices

    A practice I started back in 2022, and didn’t even realize I was doing it, is living room dance parties. It’s like throwing a concert, but it’s just for me. When I DJ, I don’t worry about anyone else’s preferences because I’m the only one on the dance floor. I play things that make my…

  • Circling back…

    Circling back…

    The next person to say “circle back” in a meeting owes you $5. But no, this isn’t actually about that. Sort of, but not really. This is about spinning the block. I’m starting to realize that the reason I often spin the block is not because there is something about the person that I miss,…